About the book

I haven’t seen my son since July 22, 2022. Will I ever see him again in my life? I don’t know. What I do know is that I will never give up the effort to bring him back into my life. His innocent mind has been filled with the false narratives and manipulative tales, like “Daddy deserted us!” I have to let him know what has truly happened to us. That is what this book is about.

Unlike an ABC (American-born Chinese) or CBC (Canadian-born Chinese), I was born and raised in mainland China. The challenge of breaking into the English-language publishing industry is nearly an impossible undertaking for me. However, after submitting my manuscript to four publishers, three of them gave me positive feedback and offered publishing contracts. It was then that I began to understand the commercial value of my book.

In my book, I bring up many concepts that are vaguely sensed in the subconscious but very difficult to articulate directly, such as the sexual advantages of women, the total alienation by single mothers trying to sever fathers’ connection to their children. I am sure you will be overwhelmed when you read over these sections.

The main purpose of this book is to help people understand the essence of marriage. Marriage has never been about raising children; rather, it lies in the sharing of property and resources, concealed beneath the intricately woven fabric of love. Most marriages are destined to end in divorce, with a looming inevitability of a 100% divorce rate in the foreseeable future. While matrimonial ties may serve as a means of asset optimization for the wealthy, how much significance do they still hold for ordinary individuals?

The best interests of children are often overshadowed by the selfishness of human nature, where mothers’ self-interests take precedence over their children’s. The cruel actions of the Toronto Children’s Protection Agency (CZS) are appalling and lawless. The ineffectiveness of Ontario’s family law system gives unscrupulous lawyers too much space for manipulation. Law enforcement looks more like an optional ornament. The entrenched bias against men in family law continues to haunt fathers like a recurring nightmare.

It may seem to you that I have prejudices toward women. Quite the opposite. There have been many women in my life, and I cherish every moment of happiness that each woman has brought me. I love and respect them deeply. The intricacies of relationships are complex topics that are very difficult to avoid. I do wish all men and women in this world have educated expectations and keep our children unhurt.